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                                             "Playin on the Freeway"Title: Funny thing happend on the way to the forum this afternoon
 
 10/27/2006 03:52 PM
 
 Went out earlier
                                             then normal today to do some shoppin and some "playin". Hit the REI for some Thorlos, took my bro to lunch and checked a problem
                                             w his car, then headed to the "Dusty" via "once thru the park" and over the bridge to Coronado -- goin to --SB-- I noted 2
                                             vehicles on the NB GP where Washington WB joins 163 NB -- sooo -- comin back NB I'm "set" to react if they're still there
                                             -- they ARE -- so I make a lightining quick manuver in behind them w-out upsetting the traffic flow --[ JUST enough room on
                                             the shoulder for my rig ] and inquire as to the prob -- FT on the womans vehicle who had called her son to help her -- HE
                                             called AAA on discovering WHERE she was w the FT! AAA was due to arrive momentarily so I bade them adu and QUICKLY "exited
                                             stage left" to clear the arena.
 
 On to the "Dusty" where Shela had her romp, dump and chase -- -- nosed a few noses
                                             and sniffed a few tails [ SHE did that is ]
 
 Then -- hit the road once more and decided to pass thru the park and over
                                             the bridge again -- stopped to assist a family w a FT SB 163 on the RS in the park and was politely rebuffed in that "help
                                             was on the way, thanks" so went merrily on my way -- rendered aid at a 2 vehicle TC -- no injuries, thankfully -- hit the
                                             bridge over and back and while decellerating into the 5 to 1 lane merge from 1-5 NB to 163 NB I noticed a small car ahead
                                             of me running on a nearly flat "donut" spare -- well -- I got on the PA and informed the driver of the hazard and he promptly
                                             went to the RS and stopped -- whereupon the tire separated from the rim WHEW It was the SAME family I'd met SB some time before!!
                                             The  person who'd changed their tire for them had forgotten or not bothered to AIR the spare!! A few moments longer and they
                                             would have been out in hi-speed traffic w a tire off the rim
 
 THEY were blown away that we should "meet" again -- as
                                             was I course I HAD air for them and sent them safely on their way. WHEW whoda thunk
 
 "Fate is the Hunter" was the name
                                             of a movie w Glen Ford [ about an airplane crash and the inconsequental { taken separately } chain of events that led up to
                                             it ]
 
 I was thinkin of that as they drove away.
 
 10/27/2006 05:53 PM
 Sierra Lady
 
 That Highwayman
                                             angel was sitting on their shoulders today!
 SL
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 and mine's riding "shotgun"
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 10/27/2006
                                             09:46 PM
 SnowtigerDaniel
 
 I counldn't FR understand a QRS what you were LMNOPing about.
 
 10/27/2006 09:52
                                             PM
 Sierra Lady
 
 I guess after years of reading his posts, I've figured most of it out:
 
 NB = northbound
 SB=
                                             southbound
 FT = flat tire
 GP = gore point
 RS = right shoulder
 TC = traffic collision
 PA = public address system
 AAA
                                             = the "Adam Henry" who didn't put air in their spare!!
 
 SL
 
 10/27/2006 09:56 PM
 
 SnowtigerDaniel
 
 OK.
                                             Got it!
 
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 10/28/2006 05:50 AM
 
 The Highwayman
 
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 Originally
                                             posted by: SnowtigerDaniel
 I counldn't FR understand a QRS what you were LMNOPing about.
 --------------------------------------------------
 Trust
                                             in SL Clairafy she will Yoda she might be [ vertically challenged crack this IS ]
 
 Good things come in small packages
 
 Thanks MLady
 
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 10/28/2006 08:36 AM
 
 Biker395
 
 AH - Adam Henry.
                                             Hehe. I'll have to remember that one.
 
 Good job, Highwayman. It's a good thing you were around the second time.
 
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 10/28/2006
                                             09:41 AM
 
 Sierra Lady
 
 You're welcome, Highwayman...I gather I got them all right?
 
 It also helps when
                                             you have a map fanatic/scanner buff/ham radio operator husband around that uses all those acronyms, too!!
 
 (P.S. to
                                             B395...SG used to use "AH" when dealing with one in the field. Those are the letters he'd use over the air on the radio, for
                                             obvious reasons, when the dispatcher would ask if he needed back-up or not!)
 
 SL
 
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 10/28/2006
                                             02:16 PM
 
 XpbbobkanobiX
 
 
 That HWM is AOK
 
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 10/29/2006 06:43 AM
 
 The
                                             Highwayman
 
 
 Well -- thank you kind sir
 
 
 
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                                             Highwayman ROBBED!
 
 
 Topic Title: I HATE THIEVES!!!!!!
 01/27/2006 06:33 PM
 
 
 
 
 The Highwayman
 
 
 Went
                                             out to my "mini SAR rig" [ 87 Toyota hatchback FX16 ] this morning to run some errands.
 
 Noticed the glove compartment
                                             door hanging open - thought "gee that's strange" THEN noticed the cell phone missing so went inside to ask "witch" if she'd
                                             borrowed it for some reason -- NOPE -- went back out and noticed other things missing as well, THEN thought about popping
                                             the hatch to check the SAR gear in the back mostly all GONE
 
 I had unlocked the door to get in, so SCUM with a KEY
                                             did this -- older Toyotas are kinda notorious for having few key combinations and when our previous similar one was stolen
                                             -- it was WITH a key -- "witch" had forgotten to "club" it and it had been used in a week long crime spree before being recovered
                                             by PD for us.
 
 Thank my stars the club was ON this one or it would have disappeared as well
 
 Well, that sinking
                                             feeling set in and I called the PD who showed up to take a report and left with a list of items that would be identifiable
                                             if found -- I'm checking the swap meet this weekend myself :l
 
 Needless to say I'm PISSED and WOE to that unlucky scum
                                             that I might find with my gear as it has taken me YEARS to accumulate. I SHOULD have listened better to Shela -- she TRIED
                                             to tell me
 
 Little "scooter" NOW has alarm system
 
 
 01/27/2006 06:42 PM
 
 southbayboarder
 
 Sorry
                                             to hear for the loss of your equipment. Sucks that people steal. Hope you find your equipment or are able to replace it through
                                             your insurance company. Good Luck!
 
 01/27/2006 10:32
 skibum4now
 
 Sorry to hear that, Highwayman. Why do bad
                                             things happen to good people? At least your vehicle wasn't stolen.
 
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 01/27/2006
                                             11:17 PM
 Sierra Lady
 
 Big bummer.
 
 Karma will take care of them...what goes around, comes around (as you
                                             know!).
 
 SL
 
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 01/28/2006 11:55 AM
 Biker395
 
 Damn, Highwayman ... I'm sorry
                                             to hear that.
 
 Sierra Lady's right. It's small consolation, but they'll get theirs. A night in a cage all alone with
                                             an amorous gorilla sounds like suitable punishment to me.
 
 I'll profess some ignorance here ... what is SAR equipment?
 
 
 01/28/2006 01:11 PM
 The Highwayman
 
 "biker" -- SAR is Search And Rescue -- what I do on the highways,
                                             freeways, and back-country mountain roads -- I don't "hike" the backcountry -- "TOFTS" but mainly stick to the roads, although
                                             the "rig" HAS been on unpaved fire roads and trails a time or 2
 
 The "gear" lost included my EMT first responder kit,
                                             an air tank with multiple accessories, a 12 volt booster - power pac, a 12 volt electric impact wrench kit, foul weather gear,
                                             a signal wand flashlight, a cell phone, a hand held air horn, and various other items [ some of which I'll discover in the
                                             near future I'm sure as I have need of them ]
 
 Have been to the local swap meet and pawn shops today with descriptions
                                             of some of the more identifiable gear and Diane Bell mentioned my loss in her column in today's Union Trib
 
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 01/28/2006
                                             03:29
 Flaskman
 
 quote:
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 "TOFTS
 --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
 
 Hehehe...cracks
                                             me up.
 
 Bummer about your loss, I hope it won't stop you from doing your thing. What awesome karma you must have, I
                                             bet you get most of it back.
 
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 01/28/2006 09:33 PM
 
 SkiSomalia
 Your
                                             cell provider might be able to trace the location of the phone via GPS. It might be worth looking into.
 
 01/28/2006
                                             09:41 PM
 
 Watersurgeon
 
 
 Sorry to hear about your lose. Bottom line it sucks.
 
 I might recommend the
                                             2WSS-AS in the future.
 
 Alarm
 
 That way when there breaking into your rig your going to notified by a page and
                                             you can take the emmediate and approriate action to protect your property, what ever that may be
 
 01/28/2006 09:57
                                             PM
 
 Sierra Lady
 
 50 lashes with tire chains, perhaps?
 
 SL
 
 01/29/2006 06:43 AM
 
 Biker395
 
 Aha!
                                             Search and rescue ... that makes sense. I won't bother telling you all the things I thought SAR might mean.
 
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 01/29/2006
                                             08:01 AM
 
 Sierra Lady
 
 Have you ever clicked on The Highwayman's website in his signature line and read about
                                             what he does to help people (not just his custom chain installations)? It's fascinating!
 
 SL
 
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 01/29/2006
                                             02:32 PM
 
 The Highwayman
 
 Posts: 3997
 Joined: 12/12/2001
 THANKS! for the good wishes folks -- as you can
                                             see from the Karma CAN be a bit<h post --"karma" works -- at least this time
 
 Don't usually GET to see it as soon
 
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 01/29/2006 10:36 PM
 
 Biker395
 
 
 Thanks for the tip, SL. You're helpful
                                             as always!
 
 So, Highwayman. You are a road angel instead of a road agent, eh? And what a RIG! If I found myself piled
                                             in a heap of snow out on some lonely road and you appeared out of nowhere in that rig, I'd think I either entered the Twilight
                                             Zone or was about to meet my maker. What a great sled!
 
 You have it exactly right ... there is no feeling in the world
                                             better than helping someone when they need it. It's actually addictive, no?
 
 That's it. I don't get down to SD much,
                                             but the next time I do, I'm going to impose my nosy self on your graces.
 
 Oh, and BTW ... congrats on catching at least
                                             one of the thieves. Swift justice is sweet justice.
 
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 01/30/2006 09:00 PM
 
 The
                                             Highwayman
 quote:
 
 ------------------------------
 Originally posted by: Biker395
 Thanks for the tip, SL. You're
                                             helpful as always!
 
 So, Highwayman. You are a road angel instead of a road agent, eh? And what a RIG! If I found myself
                                             piled in a heap of snow out on some lonely road and you appeared out of nowhere in that rig, I'd think I either entered the
                                             Twilight Zone or was about to meet my maker. What a great sled!
 
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 One
                                             CHP who came upon me in the night at an incident said "you look like something from outer space -- I could see you a mile
                                             away!" -- helps keep me alive, playing on the freeway, as I do
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 You
                                             have it exactly right ... there is no feeling in the world better than helping someone when they need it. It's actually addictive,
                                             no?
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 That's it. I don't get down to SD much, but the next time I do, I'm going to impose
                                             my nosy self on your graces.
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 Be
                                             it warm, we can "set a spell" on the porch -- be it cold, you can warm your hands on my "balls"
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 Oh,
                                             and BTW ... congrats on catching at least one of the thieves. Swift justice is sweet justice.
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 Seems
                                             like leads developed from this case are helping to solve some other cases as well I'm told -- that DOES feel good thx "biker"
 btw
                                             -- the "balls" are the BRASS ones on my Franklin stove
 
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 01/30/2006 10:12 PM
 moreSNOWplease
 
 Someone
                                             stole my girlfreinds goggles from McCoy a few weekends ago.
 
 I mean nothing pisses me off more....
 
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 Biker395
 
 
 Hey
                                             there Highwayman.
 
 I've had my car stolen a couple of times. On one occasion, the car was parked in a San Pedro parking
                                             lot while I was attending a funeral at sea. LOL. Only *I* could have my car stolen at a funeral!
 
 Interesting too was
                                             my reaction. What?! My car is here .... I've just forgotten where I put it. <quick glance around reveals no car in sight>.
                                             Oh, I know ... it's hiding under some other cars in the parking lot. <checking underneath other cars>. Maybe I'm in
                                             the wrong parking lot? <Quizzical countenance>. Maybe a friend took it as a joke ... because they needed it? Maybe I
                                             forgot to set the parking brake and it rolled into the ocean.
 
 It actually takes a long while for ignorant saps like
                                             me to figure out that the car was actually stolen and ain't coming back.
 
 Then, the realization that not only is the
                                             *car* gone, but all of the things inside of it. A scanner. A SSB CB. A stereo. A radar detector. In fact, my car was such
                                             a POS, I think they stole it to get all that stuff ... in particular, the scanner ... for nefarious purposes of course. They
                                             also got a car seat and some diapers.
 
 And, oh gawd ... my daughters little kitty doll. That's gone too. She was crushed.
 
 The
                                             car went missing for over a month, and the insurance company was about to declare it a total loss, when it was found abandoned
                                             somewhere in San Pedro. My daughter was with me ... hoping that the kitty would still be there.
 
 And it was! The thief
                                             actually had a heart and left the doll in the back seat. Maybe there is a *little* honor among theives.
 
 I told my colleagues
                                             at work about it. One had a sage comment:
 
 Next time, hide the scanner in the kitty.
 
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 01/31/2006
                                             08:32 AM
 
 
 The Highwayman
 Humor is the armor with which we are able to cloak ourselves to handle the loss and
                                             yours is great thanks "biker"
 
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 01/31/2006 05:40 PM
 cloud9driver
 
 Posts: 1
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                                             01/31/2006
 re: "Have been to the local swap meet and pawn shops today with descriptions of some of the more identifiable
                                             gear and Diane Bell mentioned my loss in her column in today's Union Trib"
 
 I read that article last Saturday, and
                                             it really got me bent out of shape (not that you were not). To think of all the good things you have done over the years.
                                             By the way, we have bought chains from you awhile back. You were really helpful when we needed them as well. Anyways, we will
                                             be mailing in a little something for you to help repurchase some of your equipment. I also went on to a El Cajon news site
                                             and passed the word as well. There are those out here who appreciate all that you do. Keep up the good work and don't let
                                             the a**h***s get you down.
 
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 Cloud 9 Driver
 Fleet/Safety Manager
 "I do know all
                                             the answers, but I've been sworn to secrecy."
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 Title: Karma CAN be a bit<h
                                             ;)
 Topic Summary: I GOT him -- the thief
 Created On: 01/29/2006 10:58 AM
 YESSSSSSSSSSS
 
 Went to the swap meet
                                             today, walked through really FAST looking, and just as I was almost done something caught my eye -- something of MINE that
                                             was stolen last week
 
 Perp's arrested felony! --
 
 The *one* item recovered [ he was asking $20 for it
 
 ALSO
                                             got him for stolen vehicle --
 
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 01/29/2006 11:26 AM
 Oopsie_Daisy
 
 No way! For
                                             real? That RULES.
 
 Give us more details. Did you hogtie the perp with duct tape and then call the fuzz?
 
 DO
                                             NOT MESS WITH THE HIGHWAYMAN.
 
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 01/29/2006 11:27 AM
 
 Oopsie_Daisy
 
 (And did
                                             you sneak in a quick kick to the nuts?)
 
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 01/29/2006 11:49 AM
 
 
 
 cheapski
 
 Right
                                             on!
 
 So the big question is...did you use Z cables or ladder chains on him???
 
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 01/29/2006
                                             12:36 PM
 
 Oopsie_Daisy
 
 
 Or Spyder Spikes? (Owww!)
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 01/29/2006 02:25 PM
 
 The
                                             Highwayman
 
 quote:
 Originally posted by: Oopsie_Daisy
 (And did you sneak in a quick kick to the nuts?)
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 As
                                             much as I would have enjoyed doing so, I didn't touch him other then to thwart [ with my hiking staff ]his initial advance
                                             on me when he realized I was arresting him.
 
 When I first noticed my item, I made conversation with him about being
                                             at the swap meet and asked how he'd got there -- no car in the spot he was selling from -- He said he left his car "over there"
                                             and pointed in a direction. I made note of that, -- As the deputies were "interviewing" him I walked over in the direction
                                             he'd previously pointed, and THERE was a car, so described by some of my neighbors this week, as being seen cruising our neighborhood
                                             suspiciously.
 
 I looked inside, through the window, and there was a rag draped over the ignition switch [ so as to
                                             hide the fact that it had been punched ] I let the air out of 2 of the tires so any accomplice he might have couldn't escape
                                             in it and went back to get one of the deputies to come examine it -- it WAS stolen.
 
 It was locked, and the thief didn't
                                             have any ID on him and no car keys were found so there was going to be a problem tying him to that car just on my word UNTIL
                                             one of the deputies found keys rolled up in a towel where he'd tried to hide them -- one of them FIT the cars door
 
 
 Funniest
                                             thing -- on the dash was a frizbee emblazoned with the logo of the San Diego Sheriffs department!
 
 
 On a less funny
                                             note -- the REST of my SAR gear is most likely gone -- sold for pennies
 
 The officers DID release the item found, to
                                             me, after taking pics of it and ME holding it pointing to the identifing "marks"
 
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 01/29/2006
                                             03:05 PM
 skibum4now
 
 Excellent that you caught him; you did the community a service. Sorry you didn't get all your
                                             stuff back.
 
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 Heat is unnatural; bring on the next Ice Age!!!
 
 01/29/2006 04:46
                                             PM
 
 Oopsie_Daisy
 
 quote:
 
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 Originally
                                             posted by: The Highwayman
 
 I didn't touch him other then to thwart [ with my hiking staff ]his initial advance on me
 
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 Way
                                             to go, Gandalf! ;-)
 
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 01/29/2006 05:02 PM
 The Highwayman
 
 gotta admit, my pulse
                                             was racing. I've SEEN some fights and yelling matches before there and I didn't want THIS perp to get away
 
 note --
                                             officer called just a bit ago to verify some info and mentioned the perp's good for a couple of other victim's belongings
                                             found in his possesion as well he'll be off the street for a while
 
 YESSSSSS! [ does "football spike" dance ]
 
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 01/29/2006
                                             05:09 PM
 nyboarder
 
 Awesome! There is justice in the world after all. I especially loved the fact that you let the
                                             air out of his tires. It wasn't only Karma that get your stuff back, it was a lot of hard work on your part.
 
 01/29/2006
                                             07:34 PM
 Sierra Lady
 
 Right on, Highwayman...I'm happy for you! Too bad that most of your stuff was probably already
                                             sold. Way to go on being diligent in your search and knowing where to look!
 
 SL
 
 01/29/2006 08:00 PM
 snowdreamer
 
 Good
                                             job Highwayman but be careful out there.
 
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 01/29/2006 08:21 PM
 Corporatedog
 
 Highwayman's
                                             Got Your Chains..............
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 01/29/2006 09:00 PM
 freeze dried
 
 Highwayman,
 I'm
                                             so happy you were able to find the culprit, and in so little time! What swap meet did you find him at?
 
 01/29/2006
                                             09:27 PM
 The Highwayman
 quote:
 
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 Originally
                                             posted by: Corporatedog
 Highwayman's Got Your Chains..............
 
 
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 forerunner
                                             of Yaxtrax? CD
 
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 01/29/2006 09:30 PM
 The Highwayman
 
 quote:
 
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 Originally
                                             posted by: freeze dried
 Highwayman,
 I'm so happy you were able to find the culprit, and in so little time! What swap
                                             meet did you find him at?
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 local
                                             drivein -- was "motivated" and lucky -- thanks FD
 
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 01/29/2006 10:09 PM
 southbayboarder
 
 Hey
                                             HWM! Glad to hear that you were able to recover a piece of your equipment and in the process get the perp who stole it from
                                             you. Unfortunately, you weren't able to recover all of your equipment though. Happy to hear that you caught the perp / jackass!
                                             One less crook on the street is better than nothing! Good Job!
 
 01/29/2006 10:49 PM
 milesb
 
 Off the street?
                                             He's probably already out.
 
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 01/30/2006 07:45 AM
 The Highwayman
 
 Well -- acknowledging
                                             your sentiment miles -- he's up for felonies, not misdemeanors AND he violated parole, AND he's a repeat offender SOoo --
                                             lets hope not
 
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 01/30/2006 11:12 AM
 
 XpbbobkanobiX
 
 Right on HWM!!!...to bad
                                             you didn't get to whack him with ur stick though...that would have been cool!!!!
 
 
 
 
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                                             The Sandpiper -- a "life lesson"
 
 
 The Sandpiper - by Robert Peterson
 
 She was six years old when I first met her on the beach near
                                             where I live.
 I drive to this beach, a distance of three or four miles, whenever the world begins to close in on me.
 She
                                             was building a sandcastle or something and looked up, her eyes as blue as the sea.
 "Hello," she said.
 I answered with
                                             a nod, not really in the mood to bother with a small child.
 "I'm building," she said.
 "I see that. What is it?" I
                                             asked, not really caring.
 "Oh, I don't know, I just like the feel of sand."
 That sounds good, I thought, and slipped
                                             off my shoes. A sandpiper glided by.
 "That's a joy," the child said.
 "It's a what?"
 "It's a joy. My mama says
                                             sandpipers come to bring us joy."
 The bird went gliding down the beach.
 Good-bye joy, I muttered to myself, hello
                                             pain, and turned to walk on.
 I was depressed, my life seemed completely out of balance.
 "What's your name?" She wouldn't
                                             give up.
 "Robert," I answered. "I'm Robert Peterson."
 "Mine's Wendy... I'm six." "Hi, Wendy." She giggled. "You're
                                             funny," she said.
 In spite of my gloom, I laughed too and walked on.
 Her musical giggle followed me.
 "Come again,
                                             Mr. P," she called. "We'll have another happy day."
 After a few days of a group of unruly Boy Scouts, PTA meetings, and
                                             an ailing mother.
 The sun was shining one morning as I took my hands out of the dishwater.
 I need a sandpiper, I said
                                             to myself, gathering up my coat.
 The ever-changing balm of the seashore awaited me.
 The breeze was chilly but I strode
                                             along, trying to recapture the serenity I needed.
 "Hello, Mr. P," she said. "Do you want to play?"
 "What did you have
                                             in mind?" I asked, with a twinge of annoyance.
 "I don't know, you say."
 "How about charades?" I asked sarcastically.
 The tinkling laughter burst forth again. "I don't know what that is."
 "Then let's just walk."
 Looking at her,
                                             I noticed the delicate fairness of her face.
 "Where do you live?" I asked .
 "Over there." She pointed toward a row
                                             of summer cottages.
 Strange, I thought, in winter.
 "Where do you go to school?" "I don't go to school. Mommy says
                                             we're on holiday."
 She chattered little girl talk as we strolled up the beach, but my mind was on other things.
 When
                                             I left for home, Wendy said it had been a happy day.
 Feeling surprisingly better, I smiled at her and agreed.
 Three
                                             weeks later, I rushed to my beach in a state of near panic.
 I was in no mood to even greet Wendy.
 I thought I saw
                                             her mother on the porch and felt like demanding she keep her child at home.
 "Look, if you don't mind," I said crossly
                                             when Wendy caught up with me, "I'd rather be alone today."
 She seemed unusually pale and out of breath.
 "Why?" she
                                             asked.
 I turned to her and shouted, "Because my mother died!" and thought, My God, why was I saying this to a little child?
 "Oh," she said quietly, "then this is a bad day."
 "Yes," I said, "and yesterday and the day before and--oh, go away!"
 "Did it hurt?" she inquired.
 "Did what hurt?" I was exasperated with her, with myself.
 "When she died?"
 "Of
                                             course it hurt!" I snapped, misunderstanding, wrapped up in myself.
 I strode off.
 A month or so after that, when I
                                             next went to the beach, she wasn't there.
 Feeling guilty, ashamed and admitting to myself I missed her, I went up to the
                                             cottage after my walk and knocked at the door.
 A drawn looking young woman with honey-coloured hair opened the door.
 "Hello,"
                                             I said, "I'm Robert Peterson.
 I missed your little girl today and wondered where she was."
 "Oh yes, Mr. Peterson,
                                             please come in.
 Wendy spoke of you so much.
 I'm afraid I allowed her to bother you.
 If she was a nuisance, please,
                                             accept my apologies."
 "Not at all -- she's a delightful child." I said, suddenly realizing that I meant what I had just
                                             said.
 "Wendy died last week, Mr. Peterson.
 She had leukaemia.
 Maybe she didn't tell you."
 Struck dumb, I groped
                                             for a chair.
 I had to catch my breath.
 "She loved this beach so when she asked to come, we couldn't say no.
 She
                                             seemed so much better here and had a lot of what she called happy days.
 But the last few weeks,! she declined rapidly...
 "
                                             Her voice faltered, "She left something for you ...if only I can find it. Could you wait a moment while I look?"
 I nodded
                                             stupidly, my mind racing for something to say to this lovely young woman.
 She handed me a smeared envelope with "MR. P"
                                             printed in bold childish letters.
 Inside was a drawing in bright crayon hues -- a yellow beach, a blue sea, and a brown
                                             bird.
 Underneath was carefully printed:
 
 A SANDPIPER TO BRING YOU JOY.
 
 Tears welled up in my eyes and a
                                             heart that had almost forgotten to love opened wide.
 I took Wendy's mother in my arms.
 "I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry,
                                             I'm so sorry," I muttered over and over, and we wept together.
 The precious little picture is framed now and hangs in my
                                             study.
 Six words -- one for each year of her life -- that speak to me of harmony, courage, and undemanding love.
 A
                                             gift from a child with sea blue eyes and hair the colour of sand -- who taught me the gift of love.
 
 NOTE: This is
                                             a true story sent out by Robert Peterson.
 It happened over 20 years ago and the incident changed his life forever.
 It
                                             serves as a reminder to all of us that we need to take time to enjoy living and life and each other.
 The price of hating
                                             other human beings is loving oneself less.
 Life is so complicated, the hustle and bustle of everyday traumas can make
                                             us lose focus about what is truly important or what is only a momentary setback or crisis.
 This week, be sure to give
                                             your loved ones an extra hug, and by all means, take a moment...even if it is only ten seconds, to stop and smell
 the roses.
 This comes from someone's heart, and is shared with many and now I share it with you.
 May God Bless everyone that
                                             receives this!
 There are NO coincidences!
 Everything that happens to us happens for a reason.
 Never brush aside
                                             anyone as insignificant.
 Who knows what they can teach us?
 
 I wish for you, a sandpiper.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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 Workin in my garden --
                                           profile of a highwayman
                                           the GOOD SAMARITAN 2000 years later -- a comment on the way things are t-DAY!
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